She apparently doesn't understand what racism is. Typical for someone who has never actually experienced it but still... the frustrating part is that she doesn't know what racism is and is using the word like she's the expert.
1. Yes you can be racist against your own race. BUT my friends are not racist because they never put anyone down BECAUSE of their race. Also...
2. You can't be racist against a group of people but also think highly of a lot of people of that same ethnicity because that's not racism. Racism entails thinking less of someone JUST because of their race. So if they don't think that about a number of people of that race.... then maybe it's not racism, its just that they don't like 1 person. Get over yourself.
3. RACISM IS STRUCTURAL. NOT PERSONAL. Racism = Privilege + Power. "In order to be racist, you need to possess two traits. The first is privilege: A structural, institutional, and social advantage. White people occupy positions of racial